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Wednesday, January 25, 2012

Sohbat Karne Ka Islamic Tariqa

Huzoor Sallalaho Alayhi Wasallam ne irshad farmaya
"Tum me se jo koi apni Biwi ke pas jaye to Parda kar le aur Gadhe ki tarah na shuru ho jaye"
(Ibne Maja,Jild 1,Safa 538, Hadees no 1990,Bab no 616)

Ummulmomenin Hazrat Aayesha Siddiqa Radiallaho Anha se Riwayat he ki Huzoor Sallalaho Alayhi Wasallam ne irshad farmaya
"Jo Mard apni biwi ka hath usko behlane ke liye pakadta he,
Allah ta'ala uske liye 1 neki likh deta he,
Jab mard pyar se Aurat ke gale me hath dalta he uske haq me 10 nekiya likhi jati he,
Aur jab Aurat se Sohbat karta he to Duniya aur jo kuch usme he un subse behtar ho jata he"
(Gunyatuttalebin Safa 113)

Sohbat se pehle khud bechain na ho jaye apne aap par pura itminan rakhe jaldbaji na kare pehle biwi se Pyar Muhabbat ki batchit kare fir bos wa kinar (Kiss) wagaira se usko razi kare aur isi duran dil hi dil me ye dua padhe:
"Bismillahil Aliyul Azime Allaho Akbar Allaho Akbar"
Tarjuma: "Allah ke nam se Jo bujurg wa Bartar ajmatwala he. Allah bahut bada he. Allah bahut bada he.

iske bad jab mard,Aurat, Sohbat ka irada kar le to kapade jism se alag karne se pehle ek martaba "Surah ikhlas" Padhe
"Kul huwallaho Ahad. Allahussamad. Lam-ya-lid. Walam yoolad walam ya kullahu kufuwan ahad."
Surah ikhlas padhne ke bad ye dua padhe
"Bismillahi Allahumma jannib nash shaitana wa janne bish shaitana ma rajak tana."
Tarjuma: "Allah ke nam se. Ae Allah door kar humse shaitan mardud ko aur door kar shaitan mardud ko us Aulad se jo tu hume ata karega"
(Bukhari sharif, Jild 3, Safa 473)

Hazrat ibne Abbas Radiallaho Anhu se Riwayat he ke Huzoor Sallalaho Alayhi Wasallam ne irshad farmaya
"Jo shaks is dua ko Sohbat ke waqt padhega (Dua wahi jo upar likhi he) to Allah us padhnewale ko agar Aulad ata farmaye to us Aulad ko Shaitan kabhi bhi nuksan na pahuncha sakega"
(Bukhari sharif Jild 3,Safa 85, Tirmizi sharif,Jild 1,Safa 557)

Huzoor Gause Aazam Shaikh Abdul Qadir Jilani wa Hazrat Muhkkike islam shaikh Abdul haq mohoddas dahalwi aur Aala hazrat imam Ahmad Raza Khan irshad farmate he
"Agar koi shaks sohbat ke waqt dua na padhe to us shaks ki sharmgah se shaitan lipat jata he aur us mard ke sath shaitan bhi us Aurat se sohbat karne lagta he. Aur jo aulad paida hoti he woh na farman,buri aadatwali,Begairat,Bad-deen hoti he. Shaitan ki is dakhl andaji ki wajahse Aulad me Tabahkari aa jati he"
(Gunyatuttalebin Safa 116, Fatwa-E-Razviya, Jild 9,Safa 48)

Inzal (Mani nikalte waqt) ki Dua:
Jis waqt inzal ho yani mard ki Mani uske Uzoo-E-Tanasul se nikal kar Aurat ki Sharmgah me dakhil hone lage us waqt dil hi dilme ye dua padhe:
"Allahumma-La-Taja'al Lish Shaitane Fi-M-Razkatni Nasi-ba"
Tarjuma: "Aye Allah shaitan ke liye hissa na bana usme Jo(Aulad) tu hume ata kare"
(Hisne Hasin Safa 165, Fatwa-E-Razviya Jild 9,Safa 161)

22 comments:

  1. ramdan me shobat ka tarika bataye ham janna chate ha ramdam me shobhat jayged ha

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    1. Assalamu Alaikum bhai,
      Aap ye post padhe bohot ilm haasil hoga.
      Insha ALLAH

      http://www.islamicsms4u.blogspot.in/2014/03/nikah-ke-talluq-sare-ahem-masle-hadees.html?m=1

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    2. Ramzan Me Sohbat Ke Aadab

      http://www.hamarenabi.in/2014/07/ramadan-me-sohbathumbistari-ke-aadab_1.html

      Aapke Sare Mas'ale NIKAH page par maujood hai.
      Visit Kijiye.
      JazakALLAHU Khair

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  2. Mard aur aurat se murad (shohar aur biwi)..

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  3. Ji Hazrat,
    Sirf SHOHAR AUR BIWI..
    Bina shaadi ke Zina hota hai..

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  4. Mard ko apni shrmgah k bal kis tarah se nikalne hote he??aur mard aurat k sath piche ke hisse se sohbat kar sakta he

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    1. Hazrat Abizar Radiallahu Anhu Se Riwayat Hai Ke
      Rasoolallah Sallallaho Alaihi Wasallam Ne Irshad Farmaya
      " Pakhane Ke Muqaam Me Aurat Se Sohbat Karna Haraam Hai"
      (Munsade Imaame Aazam Safa 223)

      Ek Aur Hadees Hai Ki Momeen Rehtehue Koi Piche Ke Muqam Se Sohbat Kar Nahi Sakta..

      Ye Sakht Haraam Hai.

      Ek Hadees Me Ise Kufr Ke Barabar Bataya Gaya Hai..

      ALLAH Hum Sabko Is Gunah Se Bachaye Rakhe.
      Aameen

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  5. Hazrat Abizar Radiallahu Anhu Se Riwayat Hai Ke
    Rasoolallah Sallallaho Alaihi Wasallam Ne Irshad Farmaya
    " Pakhane Ke Muqaam Me Aurat Se Sohbat Karna Haraam Hai"
    (Munsade Imaame Aazam Safa 223)

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  6. Kya shohar apni biwi k sath sohbat krte waqt alag alag tarike (positions) se sohbat kr skta he.?

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    1. Ha bilkul kar sakta hai
      Magar yaad rahe sirf biwi ki sharmgah se hi sohbat kare.
      Piche ke maqam se sohbat haraam hai aur Hadees me ise Kufr ke barabar sakht gunah bataya gaya hai
      insha ALLAH is topic par bhi post kiya jayega.
      aur Jaanwaro jaise khade khade sohbat na kare.
      isse Ejaye tansul kamjor hota hai aisa haqimo ka kehna hai.
      Tumhari biwiya tumhari khetiyo ki tarah hai.
      Jaise chahe jab chahe aao.

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  7. Assalamo alaykum bhul se peche ki taraf sohbat karli ho to kya nikah tut jayga

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    1. Walekum Assalam
      Aap is mamle me apne yaha ke Maulana, Aalim Ya Mufti se Ray le.
      Ye masla mere pas maujood nahi hai..
      Ha magar ye Haraam aur Kufr ke barabar sakht gunaah hai.

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  8. Sohbat Krne Se Pehle Shohar or Biwi Ek Dusre Ki Razamandi Se Agar Ek Dusre Ki Sharmgaho ko Apne Muh me Lena ya Dena Chahe to Islam Me Ye Chiz Zayaz he.? Islam is bare Me Kya Kehta he.? Zara Roshni kare is bare me or apka blog masha allah a6a kam kr raha he nikah or sohbat k bare me jankari ata krne se jahalat door hoti or ilm hasil hota he wrna is bare me bolne se aksar log parhez krte he...

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    1. Walekum Assalam Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barkatuhu

      Ummul Momineen Hazrate Aayeha Siddiqa Radiallahu Ta'ala Anha Farmati Hai.

      RasoolALLAH Sallallaho Alaihi Wasallam Ki Wafaat Ho Gayi Lekin NA Kabhi Aapne Mera Satr (Sharmgah) Dekha Aur Na Maine Aapka Satr (Sharmgah) Dekha.
      (Ibne Majah Jild 1, Bab No 616, Hadees No 1991, Safa 538)

      Is Hadees Se Yeh Pata Chalta Hai Ki Daurane Sohbat Ek Dusre Ki Sharmgah Ko Dekhana Mana Hai.

      Aur Rahi Sharmgah Ko Muh Me Lene Ki Baat To Ye Angrezo Ka Ghinauna Tariqa Hai.
      Sharmgah Aisi Jagah Hai Jaha Se Napaaki Kharij Hoti Rehti Hai.
      Jab Dekhna Mana Hai To Muh Me Lena Door Ki Baat Hai.

      Logo Ki Rrhnumai Ke Liye Yaha Comments Rakhe Gaye Hai.
      Website Ka Adabo Ahtaram Kare.
      Aur Ilm Hasil Kare.
      Aise Bohotse Mas'ale abhi baki hai.
      Sab post kiye jayenge.
      Visit karte rahe.
      ALLAH Hum Sabko Nabi-E-Kareem Sallallaho Alaihi Wasallam Ki Sunnato Par Amal Karne Ki Taufiq Ata Farmaye.
      Aameen
      Assalamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barkatuhu

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  9. Asslamo alay koom. .. Bhai Agar Shohar ya Biwi dono mese koi b apni ( khas krke shohar ) Shrmgah ek dusre ko muh me de ya le to kya ye islam me zayaz he.? Islam iske bare me kya kehta he.? Is jahalat k bare me islam kya kehta he zara info. Dijiyega

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    1. Walekum Assalam Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barkatuhu

      Ummul Momineen Hazrate Aayeha Siddiqa Radiallahu Ta'ala Anha Farmati Hai.

      RasoolALLAH Sallallaho Alaihi Wasallam Ki Wafaat Ho Gayi Lekin NA Kabhi Aapne Mera Satr (Sharmgah) Dekha Aur Na Maine Aapka Satr (Sharmgah) Dekha.
      (Ibne Majah Jild 1, Bab No 616, Hadees No 1991, Safa 538)

      Is Hadees Se Yeh Pata Chalta Hai Ki Daurane Sohbat Ek Dusre Ki Sharmgah Ko Dekhana Mana Hai.

      Aur Rahi Sharmgah Ko Muh Me Lene Ki Baat To Ye Angrezo Ka Ghinauna Tariqa Hai.
      Sharmgah Aisi Jagah Hai Jaha Se Napaaki Kharij Hoti Rehti Hai.
      Jab Dekhna Mana Hai To Muh Me Lena Door Ki Baat Hai.

      Logo Ki Rrhnumai Ke Liye Yaha Comments Rakhe Gaye Hai.
      Website Ka Adabo Ahtaram Kare.
      Aur Ilm Hasil Kare.
      Aise Bohotse Mas'ale abhi baki hai.
      Sab post kiye jayenge.
      Visit karte rahe.
      ALLAH Hum Sabko Nabi-E-Kareem Sallallaho Alaihi Wasallam Ki Sunnato Par Amal Karne Ki Taufiq Ata Farmaye.
      Aameen
      Assalamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barkatuhu

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  10. Asslamo alay koom. ..bhai agar shohar or biwi ek dusre ki sharmgah dekh le ya hamesha dekhte ho jb b wo sohbat kre to islam me kya riwayat he iski kya shohar biwi ko ek dusre ki sharmgah dekhna haram he ya makrih he.? Ya gunah he..? Zara ye bat clear kre...

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    1. Walekum Assalam Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barkatuhu

      Hazrat Ibne Adi Radiallahu Ta'ala Anha Hazrate Abdullah Ibne Abbas Radiallahu Ta'ala Anhu Se Riwayat Karte Hai.

      Hazrate Ibne Abbas Ne Farmaya.
      "Tum Me Se Koi Apni Aurat Se Sohbat Kare To Uski Sharngah Ko Na Dekhe Ki Isse Aankho Ki Binaai (Roshni) Khatm Ho Jati Hai.
      (Munsade Imaame Aazam Safa 225)

      Sharmgah Ko Na Dekhna Sohbat Ke Aadab Me Se Hai Aur Humare Aaqa Sallallaho Alaihi Wa Aalihi Wasallam Ki Sunnat Hai.
      Sharmgah Dekhne Ka Nuksan Upar Bayan Kiya Hai.

      Magr Koi Ise Dekhe To Haraam, Gunah Ya Makruh Hone Ki Koi Daleel Maujood Nahi Hai.
      Ulma-E-Kiram Ne Bhi Mana Farmaya Hai.
      JazakALLAHU Khair

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  11. Asslamo alay koom. ..Bhai
    Agar biwi pregnant ho or shohar ko sohbat krne ka man ho to islam me iske bare me kya kaha gaya he k shohar kitne mahino tk apni biwi se sohbat kr skta he dr. To 9 mahine tk sohbat ki raza de rahe he pr bache pr wazan na aay us position me pr sbse sacha hamara islam is bare me kya kehta he zara info. Dijiyega jazakallahu khair..

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  12. Assalam O Alikum,

    Shadi Ki Pehlay Raat Mein B.V say Humbestri kar saktay hein?

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  13. Walekum Assalam Bhai
    Ji ha aap jab chahe apni biwi se sohbat kar sakte hai
    Hadees me hai ke biwi hamare liye kheti ke tarah hai
    jab chahe jaise chahe aap aao.
    khabardar hadees me piche ke muqam par sohbat ko Haraam bataya gaya hai.

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