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Tuesday, January 24, 2012

Suhag Rat Ke Aadab:

Jub dulha,dulhan kamare me jaye aur tanhai ho to behtar ye he ki, subse pehle dulha, dulhan wuzoo karle aur fir 2 rakat nafil namaz Shukrana (Ba Jamat) padhe. Dulhan agar Haiz (Mahvari) ki halat me ho to namaz na padhe.
Dulha Imaamat kare aur Dulhan uske piche namaz padhe.

Namaz ki niyat:
Niyat ki maine 2 Rakat Namaz nafil Shukrane ki waste Allah Ta'ala ke rukh mera Kaaba sharif ke taraf, Allaho Akbar.

fir humesha jaise namaz padhte he waise hi namaz padhe aur is tarah dua kare
"Aye ALLAH tera shukra aur Ehsan he ki tune hume ye din dikhaya aur hume is khushi wa ne'amat se nawaza aur hume apne Habeeb Sallalaho Alayhi Wasallam ki sunnat par amal karne ki taufiq ata farmayi
Ae Allah humari is khushi ko humesha isi tarah kayam rakh, hume mel milap pyar muhabbat ke sathe zindagi gujarne ki taufiq ata farma.
Ae Rabbe kadir hume nek farmabardar aulad ata farma.
Aameen
(Gunyatuttalebin Jild: 5, Safa: 115)

Hazrat Abdullah ibne masud Radiallahu ta'ala anho farmate he:
"Ek shaks ne bayan kiya ki maine ek jawan ladki se nikah kar liya he aur muze dar he ki wo muze pasand nahi karegi.
Hazrat Abdullah bin Masud ne farmaya:
Muhabbat Allah ki taraf se hoti he aur nafrat shaitan ke taraf se.
jub tum biwi ke pas jao to subse pehle use kaho ki woh tumhare piche 2 rakat namaz padhe
(Gunyatuttalebin Jild: 5, Safa: 115)

Namaz aur fir uske bad dua padh lene ke bad dulha,dulhan palang par sukun se baith jaye fir uske bad dulha apni dulhan ki peshani ke thode bal apne sidhe hath me narmi ke sath muhabbat bhare andaz me pakade aur ye Dua padhe:

Hazrat Amra bin Aas Radiallahu Anho se riwayat he ke Sarkare Madina Sallalaho Alayhi Wasallam ne irshad farmaya:
"Jab koi shaks nikah kare aur pehli rat (Suhag rat) ko apni dulhan ke pas jaye to narmi ke sath uski peshani ke thode se bal apne sidhe hath me le kar yah dua padhe:

"Allahumma inni as aluka min khaire-h-wa-khaire-m jabal-t-h-alayhe wa auzoo be-ka-min sharre-h-wa sharre-m-jabal-t-h-Alaih"
Tarjuma:
Aye Allah mai tuzse iski (Biwi ki) bhalai aur khairo barkat mangta hu aur uski fitari aadato ki bhalai, aur teri panah chahta hu isko burai aur fitari aadato ki burai se.
(Abu Dawood Jild: 2, Safa: 150, Hasne hasin Safa: 164)

Ek Badi Galatfehmi:
Kuch logo ka khayal he ki jub Aurat se pehli bar sohbat ki jaye to uski sharmgah se khoon kharij hona jaruri he
Ye khoon ka aana uske ba ajmat pak daman hone ka suboot samza jata he
Agar khoon nahi aaya to aurat badchalan aawara samzi jati he aur aurat ki sharafat aur ba ajmat hone me shak kiya jata he. Aaiye is masle ke bare me hum jante he

Kuwari ladkiyo ki sharmgah me thoda andar ek patali zilli hoti he.
Jise Parda-E-Ajmat Ya Parda-E-Bakarat (Hymen) kehte he.
Is zilli me chota sa surakh hota he jiske jariye ladaki ke balig hone par Haiz (Mahwari) ka khoon apne waqt par khariz hota rehta he.
Shadi ke bad jab mard pehli bar sohbat karta he to mard ke Uzoo-E-Tanasul ke uske takarane ki wajahse wo zilli fat jati he.
Is mauke par aurat ko thodi taklif hoti he aur thodasa khoon kharij hota he.
Fir yah zilli humesha ke liye khatam ho jati he.
lekin ye zilli patali aur najuk hoti he to kai martaba kisi ladaki ko ye kisi mamuli chot ya kisi hadse ki wajahse ya kabhi khud ba khud fat jati he. Lihaza agar aurat se sohbat ke dauran khoon na nikale to use aawara samazna munasib na hoga jub tak ki mukammal sharai suboot na ho

"Jiska Parda-E-Ajmat kudne,haiz aane ya jakhm ya umar jyada hone ki wajahse fat jaye wo aurat hakikat me Bakirah (Kuwari, Pak daman) hai.
(Tanwirul Absar, Fatwa-E-Razviya Jild: 12, Safa: 36)

13 comments:

  1. plz tell me that
    dulha dulhan ko namaz ek sath padni chahiye ya ange peeche khade hokar

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    1. Agey pichey khade reh kar namaz padhni chaiye..kyunki Islam mein mard or aurat ko sath mein khade reh kar namaz padhne ki ijazat nahi hai..!!

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    2. Assalamu Alaikum Hazrat,
      Dulha imaamat kare aur Dulhan uske piche Namaz Padhe

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    3. Dulha Imaamat kare aur Dulhan uske piche namaz padhe.

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  2. thanks for this topic excellent

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  3. agar ladka ladki namaz or baki dua na padhe ya padhna bhul jaye. to is soorat mai kya karna chahiye.kya baad mai dua padhne ki koi ijazat ya daleel hai. plz reply

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  4. Period k baad konsi din milne ......aulaad rukegi.....plzzz tel me

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  5. 3 din baad...7 din hone tak karein inshallah thehar jayegi

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  6. Assalamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barkatuhu

    Hamal Na Thehre iske liye ye tarika hai:

    Aurat Ko Haiz (Periods) shuru hone ke 1 hafta pehle aur Aurat Jis din pak ho jaye us dinse 1 hafte tak Sohbat karne se hamal nahi theherta.
    Kyunki upar bataye dino me Aurat ke jism me Bachcha paida karnewale Ande (OVA) nahi hote. Isliye in dino bachche hone ke chance kam honge.

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  7. Ek masla batane ka karam karein agar mard namaz padhna nahi aata hai magar ladki ko namaz padhna aata hai to is halat mein imamat kaun karega plz reply

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    1. Assalamu Alaikum Bhai
      Upar Tariqa Diya Hua Hai Us Hisabse Mard Hi Imamat Kare.
      Agar mard ko namaz nahi aati to sikh le.
      Aurat ki imamat me mard ki namaz nahi hogi.
      Fir bhi aap Maulana ya Aalim se mashwara karle.
      JazakALLAHU Khair

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  8. Assalam alaikum
    agar ladka ladki namaz padna or dua mangna bhul gaye to kya karna chahiye

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    1. Walekum Assalam
      Hambistri se pehle Dua nahi padhi ya shukrane ki namaz nahi padhi to koi Hukm nahi...
      (Answer By: Maulana Masood Noori Sahab Kibla)

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